J August 5, at 3: My ex was not interested in tall, rich Asian guy, but she was really attractive. I look mostly Asian, and like so many other heterosexual Asian males before me, I have internalized a lifetime of believing that my features, my face, my skin tone, in tandem, make me unattractive and undesirable. Sure, an Asian guy will think bubble tea is a perfectly acceptable venue for a first date. Hugs, cuddles and kisses however, not so much. I have made many long distance friends than actually meeting anyone.
Bruce, what do I do to change it?
Officially reporting the harassment often leads nowhere, leading many women to stay silent. Several women had hesitated to speak publicly about the harassment, fearing it would make Asian men look bad.