As saddened as I was by hearing that, I looked at the other men's faces and they all nodded their heads. Being intimate with another person means owning up to those fears. Often, these are the same thing. Christian singles tend to take dating far too seriously. Now these findings are reported in an online, anonymous survey. People in the first category often have issues with falling in love.
At least at church I can presume that the men I'm surrounded by share my faith, and that we have similar beliefs and values in common.
You cannot force attachment. Coming into contact with men who seem much more accepting of my body. Sometimes single people can shy away from commitment only to find their fears confirmed and lose themselves in loneliness rather than commitment.