If it means that much to you, a good partner will bite the bullet and make it work once in a while, and maybe even have fun while doing it. If you want something to be discussed, you're the one who has to bring it up because he prioritizes himself first. This is the one who falls in love with you immediately "immediately" being somewhere in the range of two to four weeks. You can't really trust what he says because his actions contradict his promises. If this sounds like your guy, don't waste any more of your time! Actions speak louder than words.
Stop, think, and ask yourself:
If we shared things, a little bit of planning needed to go into place. Yes, Please No Thanks.